Tough Situation...Need Advice
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I am currently 18 years old and i have an amazing girlfriend who i've known for a long time and have been dating for a year now. Things were great until our parents found out we were dating. She is 14 and it raised some red flags. I know my intentions with her are only good, but our parents (except her mom) don't even want us to talk. Her mom lets us talk and see each other secretly now and then and the fact that i don't see her as much as a normal bf/gf should see their significant other makes me upset quite a bit. I get jealous of her being with other guys and even with her girlfriends. Anytime she goes somewhere i get upset and in return, so does she. At the beginning of our relationship she kissed another guy and despite the fact that our relationship has grown, i'm VERY afraid it'll happen again. I'm worried she'll find someone else. I'm tired of feeling like this and getting mad. It hurts me to hurt her... please help!
If you keep getting angry and jealous, you will drive her away.
But maybe that's for the best. You are 18 and she is 14. That means you could go to jail if things get out of hand.
My advice is for you to find another girlfriend closer to your age and go out like a bf/gf should.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com