Don't know what to do!
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
First off let me say that I am not very good socially! I tend not to pick up on peoples signals at all! I am just oblivious. I am a college student and at the begining of the semester I met a girl in my english class. She seemed very nice and all but had a b/f so I didn't put much stock into anything going anywhere. She would call me on days we had class and want me to come have lunch with her and hang out for about 2 hours untill class started. This has been going on all semester. We would flirt a little bit with each other but not to much. I also never kissed her ass on anthing and always told her how it was straight up. She would complain about her b/f and how bad he would treat her at times. I would always tell her that i didn't know why she was with him and that she could do better. We are 13 weeks now into the semester and 2 weeks prior she dumped her b/f. I did ask her to go see a movie like 4 days before she broke up with her b/f. Not neccisaraly as a date and it was a very last minute thing as in like the movie started in 30 min. After she had broke up with her b/f she started acting very weird towards me. She acted kinda normal face to face when I saw her in class but stopped calling me to go to lunch before class and never responded back to me when I tried to contact her outside of class. This current week she started calling me again to hang out before class and has been a lot more flirty with me than normally. She also has been looking at me now all the time even while I may be talking to her while working on homework and not paying attention to her. I'll catch her just looking at me. She has been smiling a lot more than normal around me and just seems to be more happy. I truly have no idea if she is sending me any signals or not. I have grown to like her a lot over the semester but know it doesn't matter how much I like her, it matters if she likes me. Any help or advice and or insight would be very appriciated.
She is giving you all the signs of being attracted to you.
Stop dragging your feet and ask her out again. And, while you are at it, start telling her the truth about how you feel. If she feels diffferently, it is time you find out. My guess is that she will say she likes you too.
Don't wast time, some other guy may ask her out before you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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