i am losing my friend
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
i am doing my graduation and my best friend is also doing the same from some other college.
she is committed now with a guy in her college who i think is playing a game with her because i know his past relations and about his past life.
i am actually getting helpless because i cant tell her all this because she won't believe me as she trusts him blindly and can also leave my friendship for him.
she knows about his past and then also she completely loves him.but for him her love and affection is just a game.
i don't want that she should suffer anyway in the future due to him.
she is madly in love with him and would shatter all the way if he ditches her.
please suggest something to me.
its troubling me a lot.
i cant sit like this and see all this happening.
Tell her you are very hopeful that he doesn't hurt you.
Also tell her than if anything happens between them that you want to help her as much as possible.
This will make her have good thoughts of you and maybe think twice about being with her boyfriend.
But, keep in mind that most people are going to do just what they want to even if the danger signals are there.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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