i want to get along
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
thanks for reading this, and now straight to the point:
my ex was cheating on her current bf with me and became pregnant. she told me i wasnt the father and to stay away from her, and i did. but when the baby was about 5months old, she called me back sayin that she had doubts, we did a dna test and i was the father!! well i started to be there for the baby and took responsibility, and i was there but the problem was that she never told her bf about it so both of us (me and her bf) were there and she kept lying for about 5 months. when i found out i talked to here bf and well, hell broke loose with her. she refused to let me c the baby n i took her to court and i got to c my daughter again. the problem is that ever since then we dont get along n get in arguments over stupid things, and well she thinks im jealous that her bf forgave her but im not. she could do anything she wants with her life, but i do want to get along, not for us but for the baby, how can i start?? things are not good and i need advice....i dont wanna be fighting for the rest of my life
She may be pushing you, hoping you will hit her so she can get sole rights to you daughter. So, whatever you do, don't hit or push her
Next, be strong and refuse to talk to her. It will drive her crazy and she will get tired of trying to argue. Just say enough to get the details straight about when you will bring her back, etc.
Sorry you are in this situation.
Best luck! George
-- from George
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