What should we do?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I love my boyfriend very much, and I know that I'm ready to have sex with him.We're both virgins, and I am very much worried about bleeding. We're not able to be alone very much, and prom night is one of the only oppurtunities we have to do this. We have talked about all of our worries, and that has made me feel better. We have also figured almost everything out. But what should we do if I start bleeding, should we stop? Also, what happens if the bleeding doen't stop for a long time, can i see a doctor without letting my parents know i had sex? I'm only 15. please help me!
If you start bleeding a little bit then don't stop.
If you bleed a lot or it won't stop -- which is very unlikely -- then you can try an emergency room or a doctor. But both of them will want to be paid so you have to figure that out. Ask them for a fee-free examination and they will probably agree.
It is good you are thinking of these things, but you are probably worrying too much.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com