Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I donít know if you remember or not, but I submitted a question on the 28th of this month, about two days ago, about how I want to date one of my good lady friends, but she thinks it would be too weird and all that stuff. I had said that she agreed to try an ACTUAL date or two to see how it goes and I said I told her that I was going to cut down on our hanging out so that I could try to get the awkward feelings that she has to go away.
Well starting last Thursday, the 26th, I have not really had much contact with her, other than still texting a lot, which is kind of normal for us.
I was wondering how long I should wait before i ask her on one of our ACTUAL dates, one week, two weeks, three weeks, you know what I mean?
Yipes! You shouldn't be waiting at all. Ask her how she feels about a date this weekend and if she is up for it then there you go.
If you wait on things that are agreed on then the energy and excitement disappears. That's why you have to act quickly.
Remember, she has agreed and is waiting on you... and she expects you to be a little physical (hugging, etc.) since that is part of dating.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com