Best Friend and Girlfriend Cheating and Lying
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
i recently found out my best friend and my girl have been fooling behind my back. what should i do. to make things complicated i am staying in the same room with my best friend. not only are they refusing to admit that what they did was wrong, but they are still together. what should i do.
Unfortunately, this is a sort of common situation. You are friends with people you are comfortable with. You are a boyfriend to girls you are comfortable with. They are all comfortable with each other and spend time with each other. Meaning if they are not honest, they can sleep with each other because it all seems 'comfortable'.
The fact that they won't even own up to it, though, really tells you something about the value of your friend and girlfriend. The MOST important thing you can possibly have in any relationship is honesty and trust. Both of them have betrayed you and not maintained that most decent of relationships. They put their temporary lust over the honor, loyalty and friendship they had with you.
I would lay it on the line with them. You know they cheated. All you asked for was honesty and they were too childish to be able to give it to you. I would ask your "friend" to move out because, if you can't trust him to deal straight with you on this, how can you possibly trust him as a partner in your home?
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com