Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I was too needy with my ex. I caused her to feel insecure. i guess i was showing her too much love and she got bored of it. And I wasn't much mature, ( well she say I'm too nice and people will take advantage of me). She was with me for a while, we broke up and she came back. Got on her nerve when she was feeling stressed out and she just broke up. She did not feel happy about the break up but she feel that its best. =/ . I been working with these issue and my inner self, what can I do now? Is it really over? Though times when she said that she missed me, but I am confuse of what she wants.
Being too nice isn't the problem. What you need to do is start standing up for yourself. Be assertive but not mean. If you don't do this, people will think you are wishy-washy and not respect you. Work on this aspect of your inner self.
Becoming active in sports or going to the gym will also help you with becoming more assertive.
She may come back to you, but show her you are strong... this will be difficult at first and you may make mistakes but still do it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com