Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Hi.I'm 15 I have a really close friend Who is 18 and we've been friends for 4years. We always teased each other and flirted, but nothing serious, only playful. But something personal happened 2me and i turned to him, he helped me through everything and he was always there 4me. And since that time i started developing feelings 4 him which was extremely strong. Since then, we've been even closer than before. Last monday, he text me and asks if he can visit me. i told him yes because i was alone at home. He came there and we were talking and stuff. Before he had to leave cause it was getting late, he kissed me and i kissed back, i have never felt anything like it. Afterwards he left and textd me the night, telling me that he's looking for a stable relationship and wants it with me. He said he has feelings for me, and we should give ourselves a shot. I havent told him my answer cause he had to go and couldnt reply. So i didnt say anything. The next day, he hardly spoke to me and when i tried making a conversation, he just ignored it. Eventually i gave up, but i dont want us to end, i do wanna give us a shot! so desperately, i love him! I dont know what to do now, and i didnt wanna ask him cause i though i'd seem too possessive and irritating. Please, i need help. Thanks
First, keep in mind that many states and countries have laws that forbid sexual intercourse between an 18 year old and a 15 year old and the 18 year old could go to jail
As far as going out with him, you have to get your courage up and tell him yes. He is anxiously awaiting your reply.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com