He Flirts A Lot - Is It Love?

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
ok there is this guy i like i actually really love him i think about him alllllll the time. what i like about him the most is hes funny and really kind. He keeps on sending me signals but i donno if he means it in a friendly way or in a lovish way. like for example..like..."ur not short ur the right hight for a gurl" i donno if its a sign another one would be.."why ur body is good dont get all bony on me now, ur my frind but dont think i wont slap u women , jk" he said that after i said im excercising to lose weight. and early summer he sent me an email he said " sorry not to see u online hope to see u online" and stuff like that i donno why he even sent it. and the last time i talked to him he ended it bye saying "bye (K)" (K) <--- kiss sign.

he sent me pics of him with out me asking and we already have inside jokes and we just knew each other over the summer........and one more last thing one of my guy friends told me he was talking to him and he asked him "who r the prettiest girls" and he said i was one of them but he said one girl b4 me.

i am too shy to ask him if he loves me i donno im not that type of person plus he has a gf... :( but he told my guy friend that hes just playing around with her. oh yeah more thing i forgot to say the 1st time i ever seen him was at an international night in his school and i was aking one of my friends to i have no idea i forgot but it was sumthing about the tape that was playing on and he was looking at me while i asked her and he as like thats my tape, later on he made me borrow his cd player to listen to when i just asked him what song he listning to he was like here listen but like in a i donno a rush kinda but not rude.

Another thing was once I was going to visit my friend at her school with my other friend and when I went into the room my friend was in he happened to be there and he waved at me and smiled ( his gf was with hin at that time) lol my stupid friend got jealous he said hi to me and not to her so she was like waving back him. ........

so what do u think is it love or r we just friends???? thanks!!

RomanceClass.com Advice
He definitely likes you! Love is about two people who are dating seriously for many months so it's a bit early to go thinking about love right now :) But since he's flirting with you, why not flirt back and become closer?

You don't go leaping into telling people you love them and so on. You build up to it so that they KNOW how you feel without you having to say it. Spend the time to be with him, talk with him, do things with him. Become best friends. That is the most important thing to have in any relationship, that connection. I have advice on that here -


good luck!

-- from Jenn
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