Re:friends with benefits or more
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Dear george thanks for the advice but there are some things i should clarify we have done more than kiss there's been sexual activity but not the full way and he has made it clear that he's willing also he has told me on numerous occasions that he likes me so there's no point asking him that aswell as that we've both lost a very close friend because of our undefined relationship/activity...
what i really need advice about is should i just let everything run a natural course or ask him what he wants out of our friendship
My advicee is to discuss it with him. He may feel uncomfortable talking it over, but a good relationship includes sharing feelings.
Try to think of some gentle way of bringing up the subject... ask right before he starts getting physical because once you get going it will be hard to stop and discuss something.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com