Am I just wanting what i cant have?

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Please help as I am v confused, I am 24 yrs old and with the most amazing man for just over a year he is my best friend and our relationship is just like is described in your article "how do you know he's the one", only I keep thinkin bout breaking up with him, I dont know why, cause i'm scared, cause he's too good to me i think i take him for granted. He is my ideal man.
I started in to this relationship pretty soon after my ex off 3 years finished with me because he told me he is Gay and i don't think i really dealt with this fully, plus i have to see him with his BF around alot and it still hurts, I just jumped into this relationship, I do think my present BF is the one for me, but something is holding me back? Do I work with him through this or what should i do? Advice
You are hesitating because of what happened with your ex. Anyone would be upset by what happened.

Focus on your new love and trust him. Talk with him as intimately as possible and make sure he is the one for you. If you don't take this chance, it may not come around again.

Good luck! George

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