a part of me is gone???
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
i dated my bestfriend of 2 years and he cheated on me twice. i really miss him and need him. everday that pases by, is another day of sadness. he is with the girl he cheated on me with. . when i caught him cheating, he gave me no explanation and let me go like nothing. that same day he asked that girl out. its been almost two months and i dont know what to do. help? he called me once drunk saying that he was sorry but that he was with her. i dont know if i should forget him, forgive him, wait, or act as if he never existed. but we all know that u always miss a bestfriend.
Sure you miss him. And you feel like you need him and you are sad.
But, what you have on your hands is a repeat cheater, a boy who dumped you, and a boy who is going out with another girl.
It is finally time for you to find someone else to care for. This will help you get your mind off the other boy. Think of how many boys there are and how much fun you could have flirting with them. Then you could choose the best one and maybe be happy for the rest of your life. Probably not, but at least you have a chance. But with this ex, you have no chance. Do it now.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com