i want him back
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
ok here it goes.
me and "sally"(both 14) hadnt been together long but in our case, time didint matter. we were sooo, connected. i really think it was "true love" that i felt with him. he said he felt the same way and i think he was being real with me when he said that(and everything else he said to me). i cant even explain what i felt with him. and we had EVERYTHING in common. except one thing. he wasnt a virgin. i was and i plan to keep it that way. but anyways, one day, all of a sudden we were broke up. "im gonna be a daddy," he said. he didint cheat on me, i know that for a fact, he messed around with this gurl before i ever came along. either way, she was pregnant. and he DID tell me one night that if he ever got a girl pregnant, he was gonna stay with his baby, which he should. but now, 2 months later. the girl comes clean, she lied about the whole pregnancy! she just wanted to break "sally" and i up! so its been 2-3 months since the break up, and since then, he wont even look at me, much less tlk. and now, im still COMPLETELY in love with him. but i dont think he feels the same. what can i do to get him back? i try not to act desperate to have him back(even though i am), but i have 2 friends that keep pushing the idea and they wont leave him alone about it. oh and listen to this, he told one of them he wanted to start things back with me, and then he told the other he wasnt interested anymore! the complete opposite! HELP!!
Call him, or write a note, or tell him in person that you heard he wanted to start things up again. Tell him you are ready to also and that you still love him.
This is the best way because it gets the facts out in the open where you can talk clearly. Do it soon.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com