How do i get my ex girl friend back with these issues at hand?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
ok, i start off by saying that i met an amazing girl and the relationship started off with a bang kinda like most.Time went on, we went places together and have had alot of memorys.i dont exactly remember but i started getting into fights with my parents and it kinda affected our relationship because i didnt know how to deal with the problems with my parents , handle a relationship and work everyday. It was very difficult for me to open up to her to talk to her about how i was feeling and we had some fights and i basically was acting a asshole right before i got kicked out of my house. So my girlfriends mom had me living at her house for about a month or so? but of course i couldnt live there and the only place i could live at was in ohio where my real dad lives, he offered me a apartment there to live at (i lived in florida at the time). Before making the move my girlfriend and i had talked about both of us moving up there since we jus graduated from high school and things for her in her home wasnt going so we'll so i offered her to come up. She agreed to do so, i said to her that i would make sure things would be taken care of before she makes a move and everything was agreed upon.i moved up there she was soo upset to see me leave and then fights started while i was up there because i was stressed and it slowly got into she broke up with me..it felt like my heart broke in half and we both were crying all the time. i got into drugs and alchol, just to deal with my pain that i was feeling and one day i realized what the hell am i doing with my life? im not gonna get her back by doing this so i decided to leave ohio and come back. i come back the day after i come back i go and see her, everything is still like walking on fire so i had to watch what i was said.we spent the whole day together everything seemed right. i said we should jus see each other and try an repair the pain that was caused between us. she agreed and then a week went by? then she didnt wanna see me or really talk to me anymore she jus wanted to be left alone. it hurt me inside and i didnt know how to react to that. so of course being a guy i went to her house and it pissed her off i called her alot , which of course pissed her off as well. basically the situation got worse between us.then i found out a guy had messaged her that she liked a long time ago but nothing ever happened he kept talking to her leaving me with no room to talk to her at all...i found his number called him and talked to him and basically all he said was that he was just trying to be a friend and that it. (although he said he liked her and if he got the chance to be with her he'd take it. GREAT FRIEND THAT IS). so my chances of talking to her or seeing her went slim to none. i read a text though that he sent her the first day i came back to see her. it said. "wow he'd really rude to come over and see you without asking i wouldnt take him back if i were you since he was controlling." now this current minute they are now together...Great friend to have done that, now he wont let her see me without someone else being with her and he basically has filled her head with stuff to where she doesnt want anything to do with me or anything...i am going to also post a message she sent me while we were dating.
you are the most amazing guy ever.
you makes me so happy. I love everything about you.
I love your smile, your voice, your arms around me, your laugh, your kisses, your personality, they way you walk, just everything about you. I wouldnt change a thing.
You are the last thing i think about before i go to bed, and you are the first person that comes to my mind when i first wake up. You makes me feel so unbelievably amazing. Everytime i talk to you, a big smile comes to my face, which you know.
When im in your arms i feel safe. And nothing else matters, and theres no one else in the world besides me and you.
I love the way you makes me feel. Im the luckiest girl to have someone like you. No one else has ever made me feel this way ever. You mean so much to me. I cant see myself with anyone else.
The things you say and do put a smile on my face.All our little jokes & retarded stuff.Everything i see and do reminds me of you.Theres not another guy on earth that is better then you or could add up to you. Your so amazing, and your so wonderful to me. I lose my thoughts when i look into your eyes. You have no idea what you do to me. You mean everything to me. I love the way you always make me smile.I cant stop the way im feeling even if i wanted to. I feel lonely when im not with you and when you have to go.
i really, truely love you more than anything in the world.
you are the guy i want to marry.
now please give me all the advise to get this girl back who saw me as her everything..
It may be impossible to rebuild the earlier relationship. You have no way to talk to her or see her.
Maybe you should send her some roses and dark chocolate. Then when she is feeling good towards you you could ask her out to a nice restaurant.
That's when you make your move and ask her to try going out with you again and see what develops. It's worth a try.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com