Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
There´s a girl I like,I know from the school bus and we´ve met up once.She´s shown before all the normal flirting signs(touching hands,arm,playing with my hair,arm in arm and even gave me a back massage), but she´s got a bf.At the time her & her bf weren´t over close but now they´re closer.When she talks to me I kinda get scared and nervous, I don´t know what to say or anything. 1 day me and some friends were waiting 4 the bus, she was there with her bf kissing and that.One of my friends pretended 2 be my gf, and it ended badly. She(the 1 I like)says she´s not angry with me anymore, she still talks to me as well.
We met one day at the bus stop and we talked, when we got on the bus she touched my arm for me to sit next to her but I didn´t want 2 sit there cus she was sitting with some other guy.
I still have feelings for her, and I´d do anything to have her.
As far as I know she´s still with her bf.
So I don´t know what to do.
Everytime I´m with a hot girl I get nervous and I don´t know what to say.
So, can you help me??
Thanks alot, I appreciate your help.
A lot of girls like to flirt and tease even when they have a bf. It's just keeping in practice like a football player practices dribbling the ball.
She is also making sure she has a stand-by waiting in case she and her bf break up.
All this is making you nervous, which is quite normal. But, be happy that you have a girl to practice flirting and talking with. Take advantage of this opportunity rather than be scared of it. Always smile... it is the first rule of making friends.
When you can't think of what to say, ask her about her family, her pets, music, teachers, school activities... the list is endless... just be prepared.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com