she was planning a weekend getaway with another man

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I went into my computer and went to yahoo. She used my laptop and clicked remember password. So it came up when i used it again. I should have trusted her but i looked in her email anyways. A couple days prior she told me of an old boyfriend she talked to over email and he is married with 2 kids. Well when i went into her email i seen that they have been talking for a while and they started to plan a weekend getaway in the spring time. When I confronted her about it she is only upset that i was in her email to begin with. I have admitted my part, that I should have not been in there, but i did not hack her email it was just there like an open book. She didn't cheat, but would have i believe if i did not catch it. I love her and want to be with her but anytime she goes away to see her mom for the weekend I am going to think she is going to meet him or something. Please help Advice
Make up your mind.

Either dump her because you can't trust her, or keep her, talk with her, and come to an understanding that she won't cheat.

My advice is dump her.

Good luck! George

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