i think im going to move on.
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
ok so here i am sending you another message. your advise on telling him in person, probably wont work out so great. im affriad i just dont have the guts to do it. i guess he just doesnt make me feel comfertable enough. im trying to prove my self that i dont need him. but i cant stop thinking about him. i saw him in school the other day. i wanted to say something to him so bad! but it was a weird feeling, like... i just couldnt do it! i think about what i should say to him next every day at least ten times. its not obsessive, i just think i got this close to him.. why not go all the way? right? i hate giving up but he has given me so many dead ends. i want to move on because i think it would be really akward between us now because i told him how i felt. but then i think that after we get thruogh this "bump" that everything would go smoother. all of these dead ends give me more and more reasons to walk away. but i think hes the kind of guy that will come after me "eventually" like when i move on. he's done it before when he got back with his ex. when they broke up he came to me and apoligized. and i understood! but i just dont think he understands me. and what i want. what should i do?!?!?!?!?
I think you have thought this through and came out with the right conclusion.
My advice is to do what you suggested and move on. It's got to be better than what you are going through now. And, you may find a nicer boy.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com