Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I have been w/ my boyfriend for 2 years now. Recently i have been getting jealous and or paranoid that he is cheating or is thinking about cheating. I have no idea why i am feeling like this. He has done nothing out of the ordinary for me to feel like this. Please help. i am worried that this could ruin our relationship.
Trust your instincts. Trying to live with doubt and jealousy could easily ruin your relationship.
First make sure you aren't the one who is thinking of cheating. If you are, although it doesn't seem that you are, then it would be easy to transfer these feelings onto him.
If you are comfortable talking this over with him, do so immediately. He must notice that you are acting differently toward him and clearing the air would be a good thing.
Finally, if you have specific worries then try to discreetly find a way to relieve your mind by investigating.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com