Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
im 14 and i just asked a girl out she said yes well we have talked about kissing and stuff and we both agree but its soo awkward because we can never get any privacy we cant kiss at school because its not allowed and we go to a movie and alll the seats that are in dark corners are takin also we arnt very comftorable talking face to face i dont no y but we only really be ourselves on texting and im and stuff like that i need a tip to help me man up
Let's take "talking face to face" first. The first rule is that practice makes perfect. Admit to each other that it isn't easy but that you two are going to work together to improve talking. At first you can start just by poking each other or tickling to make yourselves comfortable. Then play a game like naming things that start with "A" and make up a sentence that contains that word. Once you are finished with A go on to B. Even though it sounds dumb, it will work and get you used to talking with each other.
Kissing: there is no easy answer to this. One possibility is to get to the movie early so you can get a dark corner. Remember that once the lights go out the dark corner become bigger. Another thing is to take a walk or bike ride into a park or woods and find a place where you feel comfortable. Finally,
ask your friends where they find a place for kissing. Your girlfriend should ask her friends the same question.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com