How to be closer with Him?Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hi, I have a quite interesting situation. I met him through my friend. He visited my friend's home during last Columbus holiday. He is my best friend's cousin. I don't even know how I can have this feeling right now because I don't usually like someone in this quick.
Anyway, I think he is interested in me a little at least because he texted me secretly at my friend's house party. It was very funny moment.
In the party, he sat a chair near me, and he accidentally fell down from the chair (I didn't see what he was doing). At this moment, he touched my arm, but it was very quick. But, I could feel that he felt something at that moment. I reacted him like just normal. I just asked him that he was ok and picked up something he dropped.
After this moment, I got his txt asking me what/how I think about him. It was very obvious that he txted it me secretly from my friend and other people in the house. Of course, I texted him back pretending not a big deal but friendly. That night he started making jokes at me in front of my friend and his friend. For example, he talked to my friend that I was able to sleep with him. It was not in serious way. Everyone laughed, and I tried not to over react it as much as possible.
Unfortunately, he just stayed in my friend's place for two days. When he left, he told me to keep in touch. After two days, I was just curious how he was doing. Maybe I made a mistake. I sent a text message first asking him flying back his place safely. He replied it, and we had a little conversation by text. Both of us were busy, so we stopped txting each other, soon. And, at this moment, he asked me to text him later.
Because he didn't text me first after he left, I thought he maybe wasn't interested in me at all. So, I didn't text him after then. But, that night, he texted me again. It was odd.
Do you think he is also interested in me like how I feel about him? I really want to talk to him even now, but my other friend suggested me not to do it. Do you think texting him sometimes even though I didn't get it from him is weird? Is it really true that he don't text or call me now means he doesn't really have the same feelings with me? Even though I may give up him, I shouldn't try to contact him first?
I know I have too many questions. I haven't had this kind of love. I thought I am always logical.
You are over-analyzing this (your logical mind at work.)
There was a mutual attraction when you first met and it was good you followed up by texting him.
What happens now is not easy to answer. You should probably wait a week before contacting him again...unless he contacts you first. Since he is not close in location, he may consider you too far away to pursue a relationship.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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