JEALOUSY OR TRUST
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I met my boyfriend 3 1/2 years ago. He treated me like I have never been treated before.I was crazy about him and thought he felt the same.I went on a short family vacation and while I was gone he asked a women on evening to have sex with him.( I know for a fact he had been drinking heavily)That does not make me feel a bit better about this.He denies this ever happened but I know its true.well it hasn,t happened since .He no longer drinks. The problem is I notice he checks everyone out and that his focus isn't on me.Am I very jealous or have I lost my trust in him.This situation has caused alot of arguments and I want to stop.Help!
Don't argue with him, just tell him what bothers you. He should be willing to modify his behavior to make you feel better. If he won't, or only wants to argue, then perhaps you should decide that it is time for you to move on.
You can't have a good relationship without trust. It seems that you no longer trust him.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com