Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
ok my name is d*** and im 16 almost17.idk if im bi or gay or straight.i started questioning myself like almost 2 years now i am a virgin but the thing about it is i never really was that interrested in boys like my sister and some of my firends.i guess u can say i dated them becuz i thought that was what i was posed to do i mean i like boys but im not on them like that if that makes any sense. i catch myself checkin out and dreamin about other girls. like for example i had this dream that it was late and my friend L came over to stay the night and my sister wasnt there so we had the whole room to ourselves and now she asked me this me this once before in real life " what would you do if i kissed you?" for some reason i answerd her. i told her "it depends on where u kiss me." but when she asked me this for real i didnt answer her she looked so serious and so curious when she asked me this for real but i played it off like she was playin and she did the same.but in the dream when i answered she kissed me and lets just say it was a long night. then i woke up idk its weird cuz some times in a split second i would think a boy is so cute then the next i couldnt care about him or anything he has to say just for that very reason. so can u help me?
You don't really need to figure it out right now. And, feelings can switch around as you change anyhow. Just play it by ear and see where it leads. Be careful so you don't get hurt.
It sounds like you are cool with whatever happens. That is a good way to be. Don't worry too much about it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com