I want my ex back, but he's giving mixed signals and I'm not sure what to do..
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Ok. So, my ex-boyfriend liked me for about three years and i kept turning him down, but finally i decided to give it a try. It was really amazing! I truly fell in love with him, and he always said things like "you're my true love." Well, we were fighting a lot so he broke up with me and i was a total mess! After i stopped fighting it, he came back and told me he wanted me back, but then he got scared because he didn't want "us" to end badly again. He ended up getting a new girlfriend, but he just broke up with her. He has been giving off good signs..i think. Like he texted me this wkend, but it didn't go through, so the next day he wouldn't stop teasing me about it pretending to be mad, and then he texted me later that night. He said over the wkend he found something that i had bought him during our relationship and it reminded him of me.... He also looks at me the same and acts the same as before, but i don't know if i'm just thinking that he still has feelings for me though its evident that he's flirting with me, and i don't want to make a mistake. I don't know how to act and make things work without pushing him away... Any advise on how to get him back? Does he want me back too? I don't know what to do..please help!! sorry its kinda long... oh and btw he was giving off good signs before he broke up with his girlfriend too. He even started dancing with me a few times at a school dance two days before he sent that text.
Keep flirting back with him and make sure he knows you still like him. He seems to be testing the waters before making a move toward a more solid relationship.
Whatever you are doing seems to be working so keep it up.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com