I forgave my boyfriend for cheating on me and now I've kissed his friend what should I do?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
About several months ago my boyfriend and I broke up because he cheated on me with another guy in his car on our driveway while I was a sleep inside the house. He broke up with me and didn't tell me it was because he cheated on me he told me that he just was having second thought and need time to think about what he really wants. I agreed because I thought I wanted the same thing too. Well after a month we got back together and we worked things out he confessed that this guy kissed him outside while we were at a dance and said that ever since then he didn't know how to fell so he took it as if he needed to break up with me. However I found out later that that was just half the truth and we broke up again because he really did cheat on me. Three months went buy and we realized that we missed each other and we wanted to work things he explained to me that he was drunk at the time and wasn't shure weather he wanted to be with me. I forgave him and that was that. Well about 7 months later we decide to move from our home. He decided to move first to find a job and I would stay until we found a place to live in the new city. Well the weekend before I plan to go see him, I plan to have a fun weekend with my friends. However I have too much fun and a little to much to drink. I end up kissing his friend and we end up making out. Well one of my friends goes and gets me to stop. I freak out and I just start to cry. I end up telling my boyfriend over the phone and tell him half of the truth. I made the mistake of telling him that his friend kissed me but I didn't tell him that I kissed him first. He eventually finds out the truth because I tell him. He then calls his friend and asked him what happened and he completely denies everything. Another friend of ours is there and tells him what happens but says some other things that didn't happen. My boyfriend calls me back and is angry with me and tells me that he doesn't know what to think and says that he just doesn't want to talk to me right now. So I don't know if he just wants his space and wants to break up with me or what, should I call him or wait for him to call me?
You should call him and tell him the complete truth. After all, he did the same thing to you so he should understand.
Then tell him you want him back and that both of you should agree not to get so drunk when you are apart.
This should do the trick.
Hope so! George
-- from George
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