Should I take the chance and ask him back out?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Me and this one boy have been talking since the 8th grade. we went out in 8th grade but broke up in like a month. So its 11th grade now and were still talking. but we also started to have sex also. friends with benefits. we would do really often. he didnt have a girl, and i didnt have a boyfriend. so then as we was seeing each other my feelings for him started to get stronger. I dont want to be his friend anymore, i want to be in a relationship with him as we continue to have sex. I dont want to have sex with him anymore because it hurts that were not together, but i continue on doing so because i dont want to lose him. I recently told him how i felt about him and he kinda jus threw it in the back burner. Should i call him tonight and tell him that i do not no longer want to be friends with him, or should i jus not ask at all.
p.s. we kinda live far away from each other so we really can only see eachother weekly. thank you for reading.
You should trust your feelings and share them with him.
Since you no longer feel comfortable being friends with benefits, let him understand that this has to change. He will need to decide how strongly he feels about you and make up his mind about what to do.
It is your life and your body so take advantage of this opportunity to stand up for yourself. It is good practice for the rest of your life.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com