i hate being jealous!!

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
i need help i`m always jealous about my boyfriend if a girl tries to pick him up or if he talk to a girl or anything i think it has something to do with my parents cuz they were toghether for ever and then my dad just left her for some other chick after 20 years me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 almost 4 years we are living toghether now and i hate being jealous i always get mad and crabby about everything little thing and i HATE it so please give me advice i dont want to screw up this realationship

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Jealousy is one of the most difficult things to overcome. I know that personally from the past. What got me past it was realizing that I loved and trusted the woman and began to actually feel good for her happiness when previous jealous things happened.

If a guy flirted with her or she flirted with someone, I felt it was natural behavior between men and women. Jealousy only gets between a good relationship and leaves everyone feeling bad.

Give it a try and see how it feels giving him some freedom.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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