Is it really over?
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
My ex and I been together 12 years we been broken up for 3 months. We still live together,sleep in the same bed,communicate with each other as if we're still in a relationship. I cheated on him and he took me back more than once. I still love him and he loves me. He just broke up with me cause he said he was tired of being hurt but at this point I haven't done anything wrong but the thoughts were still in his mind I guess. I think he's seeing someone else but he always tell me he isn't. He still comes home every night we have kids together but I don't understand if we love each other and there's no
one else why can't we work it out. He told me we will work it out on his time. What shall I do I really love him and want to work things out. He forgave me for cheating.
It seems he forgave you for cheating but is still holding a grudge.
Prove to him that you can be faithful and he will probably come around pretty soon. Maybe he thinks you need this break to make you realize that what you have done is pretty bad.
The fact that he has forgiven you multiple times shows that he wants to stick with you but just needs time.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com