I feel stupid
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I met a guy last week during a summer camp for children we were working at. At first he didn't attract my attention, but when I saw him interact with the kids and with the rest of the staff I started to really like him. Now that the camp is over, I can't stop thinking about him. I look his photos like a stupid pervert, remembering when he said this, or when he did that, and how good it felt when he said my name or just being around him. Thinking about him makes me also want to become a better person: more beautiful, more intelligent, more interesting, more energetic, more helpful to people. I thought I would be ok waiting for a year till next summer to (maybe) see him again, improving myself meanwhile. But I miss him now so much,it hurts.
We live in different cities, although not far away, and go to different universities. I don't have his contact information but two of his friends have mine. In fact, now that I think about it, all the staff but him has my contact information. I feel so stupid. In 3 months there'll be a festival in his university and a friend of his has invited all the staff, so there's the possibility that the guy I like is there. And by the way I don't even know if he has a girlfriend or not.
I suppose that after some days I'll cool down, but at the moment I don't know how to deal with these emotions. Any piece of advice, please? Thank you.
Some of your friends from the staff have his contact information. Contact him and tell him about the festival and how you'd like to get together.
If he has a girlfriend he will tell you and your worries will be over.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com