Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Me and the girl I like are both 15.
We're best friends, and were already in that bf/gf stage.
but im worried because, How do I know she wants this relationship to work? Or if it could be something more?
Also, is it more common for best friends who date to kiss or progress more quickly than others?
Since you are best friends with her you should be able to discuss your first question with her. She is the one who knows if she wants the relationship to work. My guess is that she does, otherwise why would she be with you?
Every couple progresses at different speeds because everyone is unique. I would think that you need to discuss this with her also. Ask her if she wants you to make the first move and then let her decide if she is ready. She will probably say yes or ask you to be more specific. Be ready to have some ideas in mind that won't scare her. You might even ask her if she has anything to suggest. It will be a little awkward, but could save you a lot of time.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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