Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
well there is this one girl that i have been kind of talking too, lets say girl #1. #1 and i were suppose to go to this one concert, but we ended up not going for some reason. mostly cause she never called to let me know what was going on, even after i called her once or twice to find out if we were still going. then we planned on going to this other concert, but we didn't cause we didn't our tickets in time. then after that i went or a nine day trip to Greece with a bunch of kids from my school and i ended up kind of liking this one girl, lets say girl #2. i started talking to girl #2 when i got back home and now i plan on hanging out with #2 some time soon.
so my question is....have i been leading girl #1 on? how do i pick one of the girls with out totally hurting the other? PLEASE HELP!!!!
Well, first off you have to go with your heart.
Your heart is with #2 right now so that's where your should head.
Now the problem is telling #1. This best way to do it is to just tell the truth. Say you went to Greece and became attracted to #2 and so you are going to hang out with her. Tell her you are sorry that things didn't work out with her because you like her too. That's about it.
Good luck! George
p.s. you weren't leading #1 on... it just didn't work out.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com