a friendship that seems to be going no where after a lot
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
ok this girl and i have been great friends for a long time and at this point we are basicly best friends we tell each other everything speak for at least 2 hours a day are basicly the same persion. i relly like her and i have been fleritng so much i have tryed everything but her other friend is telling me that she still 1. doesnt realise i like her and 2. hasnt said the liked me at all so im afride to tell her i like her and risk are friend ship i dont know how to make it obvious that i love her without telling her i have read besicly every piece of addvice in this site about flerting and tryed it all tot he extream but its not geting me anywear other then better friends so it would be great if i could have some addvice on what to do tell her or how to make her know i like her thanks so much it would be a great help
Tell her matter-of-factly that a problem and she will say "what?"
Then tell her that you have just started "having feelings" for her.
If she asks what kind of feelings tell her that your first worry is that you don't want to ruin your friendship but that the feelings are the beginnings of romantic feelings and then ask her how she feels.
If she says she is happy with just friendship then tell her that is ok with you because friendship is the most important thing to you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com