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Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Help me please! I have this huge crush on one of my friends thatís a guy and I donít know if he likes me or not and I donít want to say anything that would hurt our friendship. I havenít known him very long but the first time I meet him I really started to like him. We started talking and became fast friends and people started saying we liked each other and stuff and we both denied it. So we just stayed really good friends. I asked one of my friends to find out if he liked me and I got different answers from everyone so I wrote a note asking him telling him I was just wondering because everyone was saying something different. And he never wrote back Iím not sure if he read it or not but he was acting strange around me kinda jumpy and nervous not knowing really what to say. So eventually he became his normal self again sort of. Recently we went on a trip to kings Island together with our Youth group on the way up there I had to sit in the same row as him, it was him, my best friend, and me. We talked for awhile all three of us and then he asked me to play hot hands with us and I was terrible at it so we decided to play mercy and everyone on the van started taking pictures and watching they thought it was cute and we were flirting with each other. Where we? Our youth leader said he only wanted to do that because he wanted to hold my hand. What do you think? While at kings island we didnít ride single ride together but we stood be each other and talked and he made fun all the time and he never use to do that before. One time we were walking together and I was looking in his direction and he kept saying why are u starring at me I wasnít so that was a little weird. He was still acting a little shy around me like if there was and empty seat next to me heíd look at act like he was going to sit down then it looked as if he was afraid someone would say something to him so he just stood for awhile then finally sat down beside me. Weird huh? We took a picture the whole group and it seemed to take him for ever to work up enough courage to stand by me. Oh yeah every time someone says we make a cute couple we both say no and he says just leave it alone. I say no cause I donít know if he likes me I donít know if he does it for the same reason.
Sorry its taking so long Its almost done I promise. We went to the water park and we both felt kinda awkward around each other in our bathing suits and stuff. We stood in line together but didnít really ride together just the too of us. But we did ride together with two other people and he sat beside me and he kept like putting his leg on mine Iím not sure if he knew he was doing it though. We didnít ride anything else together though but I went over and watched him play water basketball I sat on the sidelines and he played and he pretended like he was going to throw the ball at me and just playing around. All of my friends say they think he likes me but idk. Oh yeah we went to the arcade and he offered me all of his tickets isnít that sweet? Well his best friend gave me his tickets too weird huh? Well we just talked awhile and we talked about him lifting well pressing weights as he corrected me and he invited me to come down and work out with him kinda odd. Everyone well at least my friends think he likes me. They said on Wednesday it looked like he was starring at me all the time but I can never catch him. He was super nice he picked up the stuff I dropped and when I was leaving he turned around and starred at me for awhile before turning around. Do you think he likes me? Its an emergency!!! I need to know asasap so can you please post mine asap!!!!
There is no doubt that he likes you. And you, obviously, like him too.
He seems to be too shy to tell you first, so you will have to go first. Tell him you like him and want to go out with him. He will say yes, so be ready to ask him to go to the movies, bowling, biking, or a walk.
Things are looking very good for you. Be brave because remember "No guts, no glory."
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com