Crush on a Co-Worker

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I really need advice in a big and hurrried way. Since, I have met this co-worker, not only myself has a crush on this particualr guy, but I think that a lot of other women are after him as well.

Should I get romanticly involoved with a co-worker who is slowly but surely becoming a good friend? Please help. I just can't really stop thinking about him. Thanks. Advice
It's incredibly common to get crushes on co-workers because you're with them all the time, you share common interests, common goals, etc. It can also be really nasty when you then break up because you have to see them all the time and keep dealing with them.

I would be friends but be really cautious about diving into dating. If you do date, take it slow and easy. Give yourselves time to get used to being together in a non-work environment so that you can keep those two worlds separate.

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