Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
okay so my boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 months now and we have never even hugged!! I read all of that stuff about saying something but i cant just say " i want to kiss you" or " your lips look rlly soft" I really wanna hug and kiss and cuddle but when? and where? and how? oh yeah and im only 14 and hes 13 but still.
You are both shy. One of you has to have some courage and that person is you. You can start by hugging. This is perfectly natural and non-threatening. When you greet him at school, start by giving him a hug. He will love it and so will you. Kissing and cuddling can be done at the movies. Ask him to go to the movies with you. When you are there start off by holding hands with him and cuddling up close to him. Sit in the back and don't worry about people sitting behind you. Go to a movie on a weekend afternoon and choose something for your age group so the crowd will be mostly kids. Kissing can hold off for the next movie you go to.
Good luck! George
p.s. remember that everyone is shy at first. Live life. It is fun!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com