Im still coming to terms of being accusedof being a cheat
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
ive been with my boyfriend for a year, and 4 months into our relationship he started accusing me of cheating because someone text him saying that i had cheated on him. this was so not true and i tried my best to reassure him that i havent done that and never would. i stopped going out with my mates and spent more time with him to proove to him that i am not like that and to make him happy. but it got worse and he even accused me of sleeping with his friends!
it got so bad i slipped into a depression and i have to have a pyhciatrist because it really messed my head up that someone who i love does not beleive me. the problem is now, he has near enough put these doubts behind us and doesnt get jealouse and so on but i cant stop having doubts that the reason why he accused me so much and made my life hell was because he was cheating himself. i let him go out and so on but i cant stop wandering that he is going to cheat on me, i dont think id be able to handle that after i have put up with so much from him. what do i do to make these doubts go away and to reassusre him that i definatley havent cheated on him??
You are turning the tables on him. Now you worry that he is cheating. This is what started the trouble when he thought you were cheating. You have to put an end to this cycle or your relationship won't last.
Strengthen your relationship by sharing ideas, feelings and affection. A good bond is what will solve your problems.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com