Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Some time ago in September I met this girl. After we actually started to talk we would talk on the phone sometimes up to 5 hours. But she has also had a hellish life and she hates pervs. She is always being bothered by guys. One day she invited me over to her church and I heard her sing and I fell for her. Then we were put in different classes and we didn't talk for a few months. No matter what i did I couldn't get her out of my head. I didn't know if i was really in love or if it was a teen thing. Then we were put in the same class again. One day she was crying and I wanted to comfort her, and we started talking allot via computer. She said it was nice talking to me again. Then I did something incredibly stupid... I lied to her. She said she couldn't trust me anymore and I panicked. Then I told her that I loved her. She was surprised because no one had ever loved her before. She forgave me a few weeks later and we started talking again. I also managed to gain her trust again She told a few personnel things that she wouldn't tell other people not even her sister. But she says she has mixed emotions for me.
Can you tell me if there is light at the end of this tunnel? Or should I get out while I have the chance?
You love this girl. Why would you want to get out of a relationship? Maybe you are getting cold feet.
Think very hard about how you feel about her. Be honest with her because that would make her feel good and you too. Honesty is a wonderful thing. It brings people together.
That is what will help her get better and stronger feelings about you.
I have the feeling that things will turn out ok for you and her.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com