Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
I have been writing in occasionally over the last 6 months and hve received advice from "George". The woman I met in 2006 who went out with me, then ignored me for over a year continues to wave at me. The situation is very confusing. A mutual friend has told me that she gets weired out by dating. She has mostly guy friends too. However romance seems to scare her. I seem to be the first guy to be interested in her romantically and this really brings out her shyness. However the waving continues, and she will even say hello to me. The friend also told me that she gets down on herself, and I think this is wat happened in 2006. I think she became very overwhelmed. Well I still have not worked up enough courage to call her yet. I guess I am waiting for a chance to run into her. I want to at least have her friendship, because I like her. I care about her. I need to find a way through this, to get closer and not scare her. The waving is great, and I do wave back. I even have waved first, and she waves back. So the long and short we are cool with each other. But I just dont know where to go now. I believe the friendship is worth it. She is 29 and I am 34. and this all is so childish. I have never had a person affect me like this before. When I see her I feel really strange, like there is something between us. Like something is meant to happen. I think we are both scared to death on what to do now. A phone call scares me, and I need to do this somehow and get her to respond to me. E- Mail is out of the question for now. Please relay anymore advice you can give.
You seem to be as shy as she is.
E-Mail is NOT out of the question. Try it.
Also, since your mothers are close you should try to make the connection using them.
Not much more to add to what I said already. You need to get on it and don't let her get away. Your life is wasting away!
Good luck. George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com