am I wrong?
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I have been in a relationship for almost a year and we constantly fight. The biggest issue is my jealousy and I admit I am jealous however i feel it is justified. 3 months into our relationship I was cheated on. And now there is another girl who is always there. I get left behind so they hang out together, they go to the gym 5 days a week, they watch movies after work at least once a week. I live 30 miles from the city so that is constantly the excuse "you live to far away," however I drive every chance I get to go see my partner. This is my third long term relationship and I finally gave it my all..I just don't know if it is jealousy or I am being cheated on right in front of my face? I am confused and 3 days ago said I am walking away to get a reaction and I got a reaction but it was more like see ya! She is my friend and I will not choose between the 2 of you. I think I deserve better...any advise??
I think your jealousy is justified. They are seeing too much of each other.
Your effort to get a reaction should tell you something about the level of commitment from you partner... very little.
My advice is to walk away from this relationship, but if you are determined to see it through consider moving into the city. But that's not my advice.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com