Is a love letter a cowards way out?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Although I haven't been seeing my boyfriend for a long time, I know that I am falling in love with him. I am 25 yrs old and very in tune with my feelings, however I still have a great deal of trouble expressing exactly how I feel.
The problem I am facing is he is struggling to make the payments on his house and there is the possibility of him moving to the mainland to find higher paying work. I don't want him to go. I suggested that he rent the spare rooms out but he, like myself, enjoys living alone. I would easily live with him if he asked but when he said he likes living alone I said 'yeah so do i', so I doubt he will consider it now. In the same conversation he also mentioned how it would be easy for a couple to make the payments. Does this mean he is hinting that he wants to live with me?
My main question however is whether or not I am taking a cowards way out by expressing my love and wish to live with him in a love letter, instead of just coming out and saying it?
Being in love with someone you are already talking with means that you should tell him personally to his face that you love him and want to move in with him if he feels the same way.
If he does agree then everyone will be happy. If he doesn't agree, at least you will have an answer.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com