Why I only now?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
It’s been a long time since I sent a question to romance class. Romance class helped me a lot during my past relationship and I believe it can help me once again. I learned a lot from your advice and from the things that I have done during that relationship. But things change so here I am, writing another question.
I have this problem, I am courting this girl, Marie, but lately she doesn’t give any attention to me. I did try spending some time with her on the phone and at her place but she seems so elusive these past weeks. We were fine when we first met. We even exchanged gifts last valentines and we had some sort of connection at one point. So when she was acting differently I asked her why, I asked her why she doesn’t call. she told me that she was busy. Last time we talked for a long time was 3 weeks ago. It was a very long time and it got me restless so I talked to her brother and asked the reason for her being cold. Her brother told me that she is not yet ready for a relationship.
A week ago, I met another girl. She seems nice so I got her number. Right now we are having conversations regarding love and I am feeling that she wants something that is more than our friendship. It may sound silly for we just met. But this is really the case. I also have this blog that when Marie saw my multiply account, she noticed the pictures and the comments of my new friend, Melanie. After seeing them, she posted a blog entitled “It shouldn’t be like that, you should’ve only one!” it is about me.
And these past days, she was replying to all my e-mail that I sent her. Why only now? She is not busy for it is already her vacation. She should’ve replied a long time ago and not when she saw that I have this other girl. I am afraid for I might have hurt her. I want to know your advice.
This is easy to figure out.
She is jealous of your new friend. You didn't hurt her.
What you need to do is to decide which one you want more.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com