What to say or do
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Hi,i am in this kind of tight situation that i really need help.there is this girl i like so much.I told my friends about it and they decided to help me about it.that is by somekind of jokes to relate me with her .At first i thought it was good but right know isee its effesince no one took my feelings seriously including her.to them its just a joke and this really hurts inside.i thought of telling her personslly but i don't even know where to start.
Yes, it's too bad that friends can be insensitive sometimes.
Tell the girl how you feel. Just blurt it out and see what she says. Say something like "I really like you and it hurts when our friends joke about it."
She will get the idea immediately and tell you her feelings. Then when people joke, she won't join in with it. She will also probably tell you not to worry so much about the teasing... that would be a natural thing for her to say.
Your friends don't realize they are hurting you so don't blame them too much.
If you trust one of your friends, tell him/her to please stop teasing because it is bothering you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com