Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Hello. I'm a 23 year old guy and yes, there is this girl I like. We have been friends for about 6 or 7 weeks now. I'm wanting something more out of it and I'm about 99% sure she knows I feel that way. She's really cool and we connect really well...when we're together. She flakes on me a lot and then expresses a sincere apology a day or two later. Also, she doesn't pay all that much attention to me when we are with her friends. I understand I should get less attention when with others, but it's almost like I don't exist. By the way, her friends and I get along well. My friends on the other hand, keep telling me to quit hanging out with her b/c she's just a "tease". However, everytime I consider cutting all ties, she'll do something extremely cool or invite me to hang out or something. At first, I thought that she just didn't want to hurt my feelings, but now I am just confused. If she didn't want anything to do with me, she wouldn't do those occasional cool things or invites. I don't know if I can do the whole friend thing b/c I don't see her that way. What do you suggest? Thanks
Let things go on the way they are going. You seem reasonably happy so why not stick with what is working pretty well.
If it turns out she is a tease then you can drop her then.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com