Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I amwith this guy who is 2 years older than me i have been in a relationship with him for 2 months now and we were seeing just eachother for long before .i am not feeling very happy with the relationship because i feel as if he does not trust me at all he will make things up to try and get the truth out when i already am telling the truth , if i am associated gone out with other people i am told i do not care ..i have never done anything that should make him believe thses things but i no his last 2 long term relationships have cheated on him .. ive told him i am not that type of person and i would never cheat,i also do not lie ever but i find myself not being as honest to him as i am with everyone else in my life because then i will get accused of other things and he will think all these crazy things such as i am doing drugs when we both made a promise to not . he will also make up lies of things he is doing such as liek ya im going to the bar tonight bla bla and then try to see how i will react so he knows i care and then just tell me hes joking . i love him so much he will do anything for me and does alot of good things for me i have told him and promised him i would never hurt him I want our relationship to work what should i do or say ? it makes me feel really bad always just hearing things such as you dont care , you dont love me, ya you were probably doing this , i feel as if he puts traights on me that i do not even portray and i do not no why ?... ahh what should i do ?
What you should do is talk with him until you each have an understanding of the other. If you don't learn to communicate there is no hope for this relationship. Love means sharing feelings so you better start doing it.
Tell him that you want to start having meaningfull conversations and reward him when he does well. It's the only way to go for a good future.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com