I feel like such an idiot
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Ok, me and my ex were going out for about 5 years. We were living together for about 3. We ment in high school and ever since then things were great, we really loved eachother and had a great relationship, he and only he ment everything to me. Suddenly about a year ago he started changing, not just in my eyes but everyone elses too. Then right in front of my face one day he started talking to someone else I would read letters he wrote to her telling her that if he had to choose her he would and stuff like that but like an idiot I ignored him and tried to make our relationship strong again. But now he left me for no good explanation and he's with her now. We have had so much together, we even have a child. We still talk from time to time and he tells me he still loves me. I miss him more then anyone could imagine. I'm still so deep in love with him. What do I do?
Tell him you have warm arms and his child and anytime he wants to come home you would welcome him. It is important for him to know that so tell him about once a month but don't be pushy about it.
If he comes to take the child with him from time to time, ask him to stay for dinner and make his very favorite dishes. The way to a man's heart is through his stomach, you know.
Hopefully he will tire of his new relationship and you three will be back together.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com