Flirting Back

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Hello, it's me, the one who wrote "If he likes me, then..." and "Making Progress and He's Catching On!!!". Sorry for the never-ending questions!

So anyways, my crush caught on and has strted flirting back. He's getting close to me any chance he gets. Like this one time when my team had a HUGE game and we were stretching. So he walks by me, through the circle my team had formed and asks, "You guys playing today?" I was getting my head in the game, so my team answered for me, "Yeah." Then he said, "You gonna lose?" Then I replied sarcastically, "Be quiet." So as he passed me, he touched me and randomly yelled (As many boys do. Somehow, he just does it best.).

Like, a minute after he left, my teammates asked to go to the restroom. Before answering, I checked to see if my crush was headed there, He was. I said they could and I came along. We ran because we barely had any time left. A few feet away from him, my crush turned around and looked at me. When I ran in front of him, I could tell that he was staring at me.

Then, we were dancing. He kept looking at me and yelling loudly to get my attention. One time there was just my friend in between us and he yelled, "Why are you touching my shoe!?" After that, he seemed a little embarrassed and awkward, like he did something wrong. So then he stayed away from me for a while. He just stared at me the whole time. I replied by smiling cutely at him.

Today, both of our teams were in a tournement, and our team lost in the first round. His team is in the Final Four. My best friend is in his class, and she keeps telling me that when I'm not watching him play, he doesn't try as hard. I can tell, 'cause when I watch, he's not only shooting all those baskets, but letting his teammates shoot as well! How sweet, right?!

Well, this may not seem much, but there's actually a lot more. I feel it 'cause he's always targeting me. Always joking about me, always touching me instead of telling me to move. So my question is:

How do I get closer with him in my situation? (You know, being in different classes and everything.) Advice
Being in different classes makes it very difficult.

Make the most you can of watching him play and trying to talk to him outside of the gym for example.

Obviously he likes you a lot so you shouldn't have to do much to get him to figure out how to be in contact with you. If you want to, ask how you can contact him on the computer.

Good luck! George

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