Has he cheated or not?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
OK, my fiance (8yrs) and I had an argument, and I advsd him to leave and he can see other women cause there will be no more sex. Three days after that I was using his phone to text something to my phone he prev text me do to me mistakenly erasing it. I saw a text stating that "I'm thinking of u" and had the ind name at the bottom however the name was saved under a male name. I advsd him to leave and be with her and he states that they are just friends, she has a man and she knows about me. However I spoke with her the next day and she says the same thing and that they have known each other for 2 months and she was not entitled to answer any questions about the text. So did he cheat or not? If not am I over reacting? He never left when I told him to but he was able to reveal his friend (really didn't reveal her I just ran across the text).
From the way you presented the facts, my feeling is that he did not cheat.
Both of them pretty much say the same thing.
My advice is to let sleeping dogs lie and not be so sensitive.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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