Getting tired but still loving..

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Hey George, its me again, Devil the guy with a ex girlfriend who studies in Swiss...

I'm really tired of Loving her like this George.. I cant even feel myself anymore. I remember i told u we had an argument in my last post.. She said we wouldn't have a chance to be together anymore, but we are still friends.. I even said mean stuff like since you dowan me to be in your life anymore, i'll juz dissapear, i wont care for u anymore..

U told me that let it be a few days b4 calling her again right? i did exactly what u told me to do... I called her back in 2 days... We didnt talk much though...

But i went for vacation on the 3rd day.. It was that time she called me.. My phone was off, so she sent me an text message saying is it really that you dont wanna hear from me again or i tried calling u but cannot get through. From there she gave me hope again =(

I made her a card for Valentine's Day, she told me it made her cry because she thought i do not care bout her last time.. But she said, i'm still not ready for a relationship yet. She no longer mentioned bout we not gonna have any chance to be together anymore..

We are no longer so close like how we used to in January.. We dont even spent alot time together anymore. She is always with her friends nowadays. She treats me colder too, and she rather spent time with her friends than me..

I'm really tired of going after her when she is always giving this kind of attitude u know? First she says yes, then she says no, 2nd she gives me hope, then she says no.. For wat i can see, she only calls me when she is miserable..

I'm really tired of waiting but i'm still loving her.... Advice
True love means you have to be sad some of the time.

Since you still love her, be gentle with her and don't argue. When she calls you and is miserable, give her all your support and try to help her feel better.

Tell her you love her because you want that to be very clear to her.

Don't expect her to be consistent, she sounds like she doesn't even know herself what she wants.

Good luck! George

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