im done with the jealousy!!

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
i dont really know if its normal but me and my boyfriend have 1 year and 3 months together..and were still a jealous couple..i mean is it normal to be jealous to talk to other people..i mean me not letting him talk to no girls and him not letting me talk to no boys..i mean he tells me that if we get married that it will totally change..it will be different because he tells me that he will know for sure that ill be his forever...and that nobody is going to take me away from him..but that the only reason hes jealous now is that hes afraid he might loose me..is that normal...is that showing how much he loves me or what?? plz help me..
-genesis

RomanceClass.com Advice
I don't think he will change if you get married. Jealousy is an emotion that doesn't go away that easily.

Start to get rid of the jealousy now or expect it to be a life-long problem.

Read this about jealousy:
http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/23682

and this too:
http://www.coping.org/growth/trust.htm

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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