attracted to best friend
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
okay my best friend is a guy (i'm a girl)and over the last year or so we hhave became so close we're like brother and sister. but a few times i have accidentally hit him with my hand in ya know his private place (his balls) i think it sometimes turns him on when that happpens because sometimeshe says i'm to chicken to do it on purpose so he sometimes takes my figer and tries to make me touch it. i poked him once or twice with a pencil (on purpose)once he even showed me that he can make his balls move baack and fourth (through his pants of course)what does that mean? we talk about sex a lot. sometimes he pokes me in the boobs (for now reason!) why? i would say that he likes me but he always talks about other girls does he like me? it really i don.t know turns me on when those things happen. oh yeah if he does like me why does he tease me and call me ugly and throw things down my shirt? he says i act like a mom to him. is that bad. i really enjoy those things but i don't know how to tell him in a nonthreating way since we're such close friends. oh yeah this may seem stupid he will hug ever single person that asks for a hug but he won't hug me for some reason he said that he only hugs people he wants to get rid of. but when he does hug me he always holds me so close i can feel his balls aganist me and somethimes hell come from behind and grab me chest whats that mean and why won't he give me hugs? oh yeah really stupid can you tell me what a baster is?
First I'll answer your question about "bastard." (The actual spelling and correct pronunciation). It is an old-fashioned word which basically means that a child (the bastard) isn't born into a married husband and wife situation.
Of course, nowadays, nobody thinks twice about a baby not having a father, or that the parents are living together. But the word is still used as a general curse word.
As far as your friend, he sounds very immature. You should have a gentle talk with him and tell him the things that are bothering you and that you have questions about. Mostly it sounds like he is flirting around with you but in a very inexperienced way.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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